As a child my parents always told me to never give up on anything you do in life, no matter how hard or how boring it was, you must always persevere. I did that through three years of college knowing that if I quit I would never forgive myself. Night after night I studied till three in the morning sometimes I didn’t sleep and just studied through the night. I was a mess everytime I came into class. My hair spread out like Einstein’s, I had large bags underneath my eyes, and my clothes looked like someone had bundled them up and threw them in a pile in the corner. Obviously, on the days I didn’t sleep through the night, the moment class started I was sleeping like a log. This is the time when everyone says that they pushed through it and got their degree and lived happily ever after thanks to their perseverence, well in my case that is a bunch of crap and nothing happy happened to me after those long nights except a few sundays that I sleeped right through to catch up on my sleep only to loose it again the next day. And of course at the end of the quarter I had nothing to show for it but bad grades and a string of endless conversations with my parents over how I’m not trying hard enough. Now I’m not saying perseverence is a bad thing, because the drive someone has can and will lead them to success IF, and I do mean if, they have passion for it. Now I am working full time at the Asian Arts Center and within a year of working there, I am almost ready to start a new branch in Centerville. For a whole year I persevered through countless reports, days of teaching that seemed like they would never end, and lastly at the end of the day a chance to better myself in martial arts with a hard workout. I will persevere because of my passion for it. my drive is fueled by my I love of teaching and trainning and that is why I will succeed, that is why I will never fail and never give up.
Posted by Alex Tienda, Third Dan at the Asian Arts Center